So much energy was put into the possibility of a hurricane. The news broadcast the path of the hurricane continually. Warnings were issued, plans made or changed. Everyone was thinking about precautions and fears. I would never fault our governing bodies for wanting to protect us. It is prudent to act in alignment with safety. There was a media frenzy here. All Fay, all day! That being said, Fay has become yesterday’s news.
This morning as I went out for my morning run, I thought about how we do the same thing so often in our lives. We build up our fears into something larger than life. We anticipate total destruction in our lives, as we know them. We fear. I did that very same thing myself yesterday. I took my oldest son to the eye doctor for an eye exam. Because of an issue he had last year and the possibilities present in his blood tests, it was easy for me to go to the worst case scenario. The longer the eye exam took, the more I had to negate my fears.
I focused on all that was good in our lives. I read. I got up and walked around. I changed activities and made little jokes to myself, all to redirect my thoughts back to the positive. When my son walked out of the exam room, he smiled and gave the thumbs up sign. Turns out the exam took so long because he and the eye doctor got into a conversation about the Fibonacci sequence and books that incorporated it into their plot. Go figure!
I was thrilled with the news that all is well. Grateful, indeed. I also reminded myself how important it is to keep working on changing my stinking thinking at times like this. The time wasted on negative thoughts could be so much better spent creating a new project! I have found that my morning runs, my biking, any time I am active, it is easier to release old negative thought patterns and begin to focus on positive possibilities. I will begin to verbalize aloud the action I will take to create a change in my life and as if by magic, things begin to happen.
I have a buddy I run with, we share ideas and dreams while running. (OK, maybe our running isn’t as fast that way, whatever!) We have noticed that our goals are being met swiftly. We are manifesting the life of our dreams. We have learned that blame and excuses get us no where. Answers and swift action are taking us places. We can’t wait to meet to run, not because we love the running as much as we love the powerful changes we are creating. All with the power of thought, revved up with the power of action.
P.S. Thanks to everyone for the well wishes, thoughts and prayers. Combined efforts like that are amazing!
You always have something well-written and inspirational to say, Debbie. I so admire you! 🙂
thanks nicole and I hope you know that it is a two way admiration going there!
Your blog is unique, it’s nice. If you don’t mind, would you like to xchge links with me?
Thank you
Yes Debbie, you are a breath of fresh air to everyone who reads your blog. You provide the positive glue to help hold those lives that have temporarily come apart. You are an inspiration to so many that you have touched. It is our pleasure to be in your company in our blogosphere!
Keep smiling!
Silly Willy and Fluffy
I know exactly what you are talking about…negative thoughts are hard to get rid of…but when I feel them coming on, I try to use mental images and positive thoughts to combat them. And though it’s not always possible to erase negativity and fears completely, I have certainly learned to deal with them better…my motto is “Don’t assume the worst until you actually hear it. Until you know what is the truth, only assume the best outcome for any situation.” In other words, why let some possible future scenario rule your life right now. If something horrible is going to happen, you will deal with it then. But there’s no point giving it any legitimacy until you’ve actually confronted the reality of the situation. Glad to hear your son is okay. (It’s hard not to jump to conclusions when medical issues are involved…there’s just too much we don’t know.)
silly willy and fluffy,
thank you. I know how you have spent your lives helping others help themselves, so I take your words seriously. (Gee, that sounds funny, writing to a couple of clowns, doesn’t it?)
henson ray,
how is it we always see others as so much more together than we see ourselves? I read your blog and watch your videos and think, “hmmm, he is so naturally easy going and funny.” It wouldn’t occur to me that you ever have to work at it!
I do like your attitude about anticipating the best!
Glad to hear that it all worked out!!!
Ellie
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Silly Willy said it so much better than I did……..:)
I know how scary it is when you think something is wrong with your child…..I would venture to say that it is the most difficult thing for any parent to deal with, bar none.
I am very glad that your son is okay.
I would say that 99.5% of the time, I am a very easy going, laid back kind of guy. Love to laugh and hang out with friends. But then again, I AM human (contrary to popular belief), and therefore am subject to darker moments every once and a while…luckily, I never stay there too long, as I’m aware of how destructive that kind of energy and thought process can be. But I wouldn’t say I ever have to work at it…It’s just easier being happy. And as I’ve said before, I have no complaints.