Overcoming fear and anxiety is something many of us struggle with, often without realizing how much it quietly shapes our thoughts, decisions, and sense of inner peace.
St. Patrick’s Day is here and celebrations are in full swing — from turning rivers green (famously in Chicago and even locally the Hillsborough River) to parades and parties. According to tradition, St. Patrick drove the snakes out of Ireland. However, historians agree Ireland never had snakes. In biblical symbolism, snakes represented evil, and Pagans were often viewed the same by early Christians. The story is now widely understood as a metaphor — not for reptiles, but for beliefs, fears, and influences that were driven away or transformed.
I like to use this metaphor in a very different way.
I’m not in any rush to drive Pagans — or any other group of people — out of my life. But anything that stands in the way of inner peace? That can leave.
Fear as an Inner Snake
Ironically, I once had a horrid fear of snakes myself. Through self-hypnosis and gradual exposure, I was able to release that fear entirely. That experience taught me something important: fear is learned — and what is learned can be unlearned.
So what are the “snakes” that most of us are actually dealing with?
Fear tops the list.
Fear can rob us of inner peace almost instantly, the moment it becomes a thought. Anxiety, fear-based thinking, and avoidance often work together in subtle but powerful ways.
How Anxiety and Avoidance Work Together
We all have a continuous inner voice. When we are anxious or fearful, that voice can become loud, repetitive, and relentless. This self-talk directly affects our emotions and behaviors. When we start telling ourselves things that don’t line up with reality, anxiety grows.
Often, our first instinct when fear appears is avoidance. When danger is real, avoidance can be appropriate. But when fear is irrational, avoidance only strengthens anxiety.
Avoidance “works” in the short term — we feel immediate relief. Unfortunately, that relief trains the brain to believe avoidance is the solution. Over time, fear begins to control larger and larger portions of our lives. Avoidance never makes fear go away; it teaches fear where our boundaries are.
This is why overcoming fear and anxiety requires awareness, not escape.
Reframing Fear to Restore Inner Peace
Many people naturally focus on the negative side of any challenging situation. When we focus on what could go wrong, we resist taking action and become stuck. The more we focus on loss, the more anxiety we create.
A powerful way to begin reframing fear is to bring it into the open.
Start by writing down your fears. In each situation that leaves you hesitant or anxious, ask yourself:
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What am I afraid will happen?
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How likely is that outcome, really?
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If I take this fear to its extreme, what are the actual odds?
Then, on a separate sheet of paper, list the benefits of moving forward. Be specific. Fear amplifies negatives and minimizes positives, so you may need to consciously emphasize what could go right.
When you compare these two lists, fear loses its grip — and balance returns.
A Real-Life Example of Overcoming Fear and Anxiety
Recently, I worked with a woman experiencing frequent anxiety attacks. The onset of her anxiety coincided with starting a job search. As we talked, her fears surfaced clearly.
When we explored those fears fully, she realized she was unlikely to end up homeless or alone on the streets of Tampa Bay — the scenario her anxiety had quietly been suggesting.
As we reframed the situation and explored what could go right, her anxiety began to dissipate. She chose to move forward with her job search instead of letting fear dictate her choices.
Her snakes were driven away.
Channeling Your Inner St. Patrick
Take a moment today to channel your inner St. Patrick. Ask yourself:
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What fears have been lingering too long?
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Where has avoidance quietly been making decisions for you?
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What inner snakes are ready to leave?
Breathe in calm. Picture the rolling green hills of Ireland. Imagine fear loosening its grip as clarity returns. Then ask yourself what beauty might be waiting for you on the other side of courage.
Overcoming fear and anxiety isn’t about forcing positivity — it’s about seeing clearly.
And sometimes, that’s all it takes to restore inner peace.
