Seventeen years ago today, joy and laughter in the form of a child entered my life. My youngest, my “baby” boy. This young man has taught me many lessons through out his life. He has always had the best smile ever and is quick to laugh. He goes out of his way to help me laugh as well.
My son, Todd, has a blood condition called spherocytosis. It is a form of anemia that is chronic. When Todd was five years old, he collapsed into my arms. I took him to the doctor’s office. The doctor called the EMT’s and we rode the longest ride of my life, to the hospital. Todd was given blood transfusions. He stayed in the Oncology unit for about a week. I never left his side. Todd’s only concern was making his room mate happy.
One of the side effects, is that the spleen works overtime to remove what “it” perceives as damaged blood cells. This causes the spleen to become enlarged. Almost four years ago, Todd went into the hospital to have his spleen removed. The surgeon informed us after the surgery that his spleen had grown to a size comparable with a regulation football! Furthermore, the surgeon removed two additional spleens. Spleens that probably saved his life. My son never complained.
Since that surgery he has become so much more active and alive! Last year we went through a time where we were concerned he might have Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. He did not, he doesn’t. A bullet dodged.
Always, my son kept his humor and done his best to help me keep mine. He is a great student, a fine young man and pure joy. His older brother enjoys him and his baby sister lives for his visit to her house. She sings his name constantly, according to her mom and dad!
My first impression of Todd was that he was such a fine young man. That impression has not changed.He is indeed a good kid.Young man!
I loved the picture of the two of you when he was little.
Thanks Eleni. You know how proud I am of him. That picture is one of my favorites as well.
Happy Birthday to your Grandson as well! 😉
Happy Birthday to Todd.
Debbie, you are a proud mum, and it’s clear to see why, you have such a great sun!
thank you Caroline. He lights up my life!
Happy Birthday Todd:
I tend to right little limericks for birthday people I meet, here’s yours…
There was a young man called Todd
Who’s head once started to nod
he wasn’t weary at all
just under the thrall
Of the hypnotist with the nice bod.
I know, I know… but what else rhymes with Todd?
have I told you I love you Ken?
Just drifting by as usual, but today had to stop say something and let you know you made me smile again. Who deserves more happiness than Deb? Nobody. Happy birthday to Todd and and happy Friday to Debbie. 🙂
Happy Birthday to Todd :p
Debbie, thanks so much for sharing this story, there is much to be learned by it. It was so heart felt and very surreal and uplifting all at the same time.
Please tell Todd a Happy Seventeenth!!
Aww, thanks Max. I love when you drift by! You are a good friend to me.
Happy Belated Birthday to Todd!
Happy birthday, Todd!!
Great post.
Happy Happy (Belated) Birthday to Todd!
Wow! What an awesome post!
My wife and I have a 17 month old son, Bray. I hope he grows up to be such a fine young man as is Todd.
I do have a question. Now that he has had the surgery, are there any side effects? You mentioned that he is now more alive and energetic, but I have never before heard of a condition like his.
Please keep us updated!
You actually had him twice. When he was born and when he was healed. You are lucky to have him, and he is lucky even more to have such an awesome Mom. Happy belated birthday Todd
@ Paul,
I have read your posts about your son, Bray, I am sure he will be all you dream of and more! They choose us, for the lessons they have to learn and to teach.
Todd could not walk up a flight of stairs without stopping to rest prior to his surgery. He had a permanent late pass to all his classes.
We ran the risk of transfusion constantly and he could not do normal activities because he could rupture his spleen and die within 3 minutes, if he didn’t make it to the ER in time.
So now, he has taken karate, rides a bike, even does chores! We call him Pinocchio, because he is a real boy now!
He has to take a maintenance dosage of penicillin, cannot drink alcohol or do drugs. (Gee, a mother’s dream!) We are conscious of diet, keeping a healthy immune system in mind. But truly, life is easy compared to so many and we are grateful!
I hope that answers your questions.
You deserve a fine son like Todd because you are a good person. Your story about your son is very heartwarming.
You deserve each other 🙂 A belated happy birthday to Todd!
Happy Birthday, Todd!!
Happy birthday to Todd!
Thanks for sharing your story. Now I realise why you were so concerned for my ailing son. *hugs*
Happy Birthday Todd!
{{{{ hugs to you mum }}}}
Monica
Happy B-Day Todd.
Good story sounds like a good kid.
belated happy birthday to todd!
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